Are all men deceitful lying creatures?

For the girls out there who think that all men are deceitful lying creatures, I've got the answer for you. Probably just the men that you were attracted to were deceitful lying creatures.

Before you stop reading, think a little bit about the following first - How many male friends you have that are nice and sweet? If you have at least one, have you ever felt attracted to him? From my experience I'm most inclined to think that if you had such friend you never felt attracted to him. Now think of the kind of guy you get attracted to. Aren't they confident? Outgoing? Funny? Sexy? Interesting? Mysterious? All the alternatives above?

There is this Italian economist called Pareto, who came up with with the idea that wealth is distributed unevenly so that 20% of the population owns 80% of all riches. Can this be applied in dating? I think so. A few men gets loads of attention from women, while other get no attention at all. If you don't believe what I'm telling you, just ask any guy and he'll confirm that he knows a few guys who are really successful with women and there are guys who don't even know what a woman is.

Why this uneven split happens? Attraction. Attraction is not a rational thing, you don't choose who you're attracted to, it simply happens. Some guys are players and have the qualities that trigger attraction on women. They are addicted to the game of conquest, but lose interest once their goal is achieved. Players meet loads of women, date quite a lot or them, which in turn, becomes the reason for their success - Practice and Experience.

I hope that this clarifies a question that should have stayed in the back of your mind when I said that if you believe men are all liars and deceivers, I said that it's more likely to be only the ones you were attracted to. It is not your fault that you get attracted to the jerks, you see? They are attractive after all as they may have all those qualities we went through before - They can be confident, outgoing, funny, sexy, interesting and mysterious in any combination of these elements - and on top of that, they also have loads of practice and experience being sexy and attractive.

How can I tell that an attractive guy is not a player? Simple, but not easy. Just ask. "Are you involved with anyone else right now?", "why did you ask me out?" or "what are you looking for your life?" - A nice guy will be straight forward about it, a player would hesitate here as he sniffs you're trying to get him to expose himself. If you notice the signs, just move on. You can't force someone to love you, no matter how hard you try. Thinking otherwise is foolish and delusional.

Nice guys are out there, they are just not attractive as the bad guys at first.